In this episode of Bad Day Excellence, I sit down with Jon Hord, founder of The Engaged Father Project, to talk about something a lot of dads quietly wrestle with:
You are crushing it at work, but feel like you are losing at home.
Jon shares the story of waking up in a hotel after an amazing family day at an amusement park, with his son tucked in beside him, and realizing that his brain sprinted straight to a software upgrade at work instead of staying in that moment.
That was his red flag. His “your priorities need to be re-evaluated” moment.
We dig into:
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How “provider first” programming pulls dads away from what actually matters
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Why your kids need a calm dad more than a perfect one
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How to run a “post mortem” on hard moments at home using Jon’s “Don’t Waste The Moment” tool
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Why a simple fatherhood mission statement can completely change how you show up
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The painful phrase Jon regrets saying to his son, and how he repaired it through vulnerability
Jon also shares details on The Engaged Father Project, his 8 week program, and his free 5 call Engaged Father Jumpstart for dads who feel stuck or ashamed but ready to change.
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